Why You're Probably Ignoring Your Best Talent (And It’s Hilarious)
- Tim Thürnau
- 22. Okt. 2024
- 4 Min. Lesezeit
Hello friend,
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “This thing I’m good at is no big deal”? You know, that weird, sneaky habit of undervaluing your own natural talents and obsessing over the things that don’t come as easily? Yeah, welcome to Roughbart’s Law—a fun little insight into why we all tend to be our own worst critics.
The Truth About Your Hidden Superpower
Roughbart’s Law is basically this: If something comes naturally to you, you assume it’s no big deal. You think, “Well, if I can do it, anyone can.” So instead of focusing on that awesome skill, you spend your time trying to get better at things you’re bad at.
You, my friend, are not alone. For some reason, humans have this bizarre instinct to specialize in things we’re terrible at, while treating our natural talents like an afterthought. It’s like Spider-Man waking up one morning and saying, “You know, this whole wall-climbing thing is overrated. I think I’ll work on becoming a world-class pianist instead.”
Why We Do It: The "Grass Is Always Greener" Syndrome
It’s funny, but the things that come naturally to us just don’t seem impressive because they feel easy. And if something’s easy, we assume it’s common, right? So, what do we do instead? We pour our energy into improving the stuff we struggle with. And hey, self-improvement is great—but maybe don’t ignore the thing you’re already awesome at, yeah?
It’s kind of like running up a hill while ignoring the perfectly good bike lying next to you. Sure, it’s possible to get to the top either way, but one of those methods makes way more sense.
The Pitfall of Specializing in What You’re Bad At
Roughbart’s Law also highlights another strange habit: we specialize in the things we suck at. Think about it. How many times have you spent hours trying to improve on something that just doesn’t come naturally? Whether it's forcing yourself to learn coding because “everyone else is doing it” or trying to be the life of the party when you’re naturally an introvert, we often focus on our weak points rather than supercharging our strengths.
Now, don’t get me wrong—pushing your limits is great. But constantly battling uphill with stuff you’re naturally not inclined towards can leave you drained. Plus, by obsessing over what you’re bad at, you might end up overlooking that incredible skill you have that could really shine with just a little more attention.
Embrace What Comes Easily (Yes, Really)
Here’s a wild thought: What if you leaned into what you’re already good at? What if, instead of running away from your talents, you doubled down on them?
Maybe you're great at storytelling, but you think it’s “not useful” and try to master spreadsheets instead. Or maybe you're a natural people-person but spend hours stressing over your lack of Photoshop skills. Spoiler alert: the thing that feels effortless to you is probably your secret sauce. And it’s more valuable than you think.
Why? Because what feels easy to you isn’t easy for everyone else. That thing you dismiss as “not a big deal” might actually be the exact skill someone else is dying to have.
How to with Roughbart’s Law
So, how do we flip the script on this weird habit? Simple: start embracing the things that come naturally to you. Instead of viewing your talents as “too easy” or “not special,” recognize that easy for you doesn’t mean easy for everyone.
How to Wing It
This week, make a list of things you’re naturally good at, even if you think they’re “no big deal.” Then, find one way to invest more time into honing that talent. Instead of focusing on your weaknesses, put a spotlight on what already makes you shine.
Final Thoughts
Roughbart’s Law is a funny little reminder that sometimes we’re so busy chasing what’s difficult that we overlook what’s right in front of us. Your natural talent isn’t a throwaway—it’s your superpower. So, why not lean into it and let it lead the way?
Bridging Worlds
If you want to see me wing it, I do a podcast with cool people. You should subscribe on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.
This week on Bridging Worlds, I sat down with Toni Stintzing, a filmmaker and former bodybuilder who has followed an unconventional and inspiring path. Toni’s journey from the competitive world of fitness to becoming a documentary filmmaker (earthboundmedia) highlights what it means to truly pursue your passions and carve your own path—combining creativity, discipline, and a deep connection to nature.
One of the standout moments? “When you align your work with what you truly love, discipline and passion come together to create opportunities you never imagined.”
In this episode, Toni shares his experiences in both fitness and filmmaking, and how his love for the outdoors has shaped his mission to create impactful, nature-focused films. We talk about the importance of resilience, following your instincts, and how pushing beyond comfort zones can lead to extraordinary personal and professional growth.
On a personal note, this conversation was incredibly powerful for me. Toni’s genuine passion for his craft and his grounded approach to life left a lasting impression. His story is a reminder that pursuing what truly excites you—whether it’s in the gym, behind the camera, or in the great outdoors—can lead to profound success and fulfillment.
Whether you're navigating a career change, pursuing your passions, or simply looking for inspiration, this conversation will encourage you to follow your heart and embrace the adventures that come your way.
Don’t miss this episode with Toni Stintzing—tune in this Friday!
Keep winging it, and I’ll see you in the next one.
Big love,
Tim